Talking About Children’s Mental Health

Lynn HowLynn has been teaching for 19 years during which time she has been an Assistant Head and a Lead Mentor at a Teacher Training institution. Currently, she is working part time as a SENCO. She loves to write, including research, children’s poetry and she has… Read more about Lynn HowWhy are so many children suffering with mental health issues?In classrooms across the UK there is an epidemic more prevalent than the flu. Approximately 10% of children have an ongoing mental health issue. A whopping 70% of those children have not received appropriate intervention at an early age. Then there are those whose issues go unnoticed and aren’t included in the reported figures.This perspective is a generational one. It appears that year on year, the mental health needs of children in schools increases.In terms of general happiness, each generation, seems to be more and more discontented. Let’s take a look at who’s who.Baby boomersThe post-war generation were rebuilding after the Second World War. They didn’t have a lot but they knew to appreciate it.Career opportunities were limited and that was fine as not every little boy expected to be a professional footballer. When it came to aspirations, there was no illusion of grandeur. Children’s feet were firmly planted on the ground (particularly the girls!).The XennialsFast forward a few years to my generation – the Xennials. Growing up we had limited technology at our fingertips and modems that made strange noises. It took longer to load a webpage than it did to ‘cook’ a pot noodle. Then suddenly, we were in possession of smart phones, with the whole world at our fingertips. Still at an age where we were young enough to understand how to use them and evolve with the technology.It is no wonder (yet not acceptable) that we spend so much time on our devices and less time interacting with our children. A quote from an article in Time magazine sums up our world of work,  ‘Millennials got so many participation trophies growing up that a recent study showed that 40% believe they should be promoted every two years, regardless of performance.’To top that off, we constantly compare ourselves by viewing our friends’ polished social media lives. We portray our own public social media lives carefully, enhancing the good bits and hiding the dirty laundry behind those staged smiles. The savvy among us know the score, it is not all as it seems. However, how are the younger generations supposed to navigate through this social media minefield? Dissatisfaction with our place in the world can be an issue for some of this generation.The millennialsNext, the millennials, suffering many of the same traits but to a greater degree. They have always had the world at their finger tips on their phones.This generation have grown up with their teenage years displayed for all to see on social media. They are the cohorts where university is literally for everyone and failure is not an option.Some in this generation have high expectations of lifestyle and income but have not been able to live up to it. Everything is available and it will arrive the next day in the post, probably paid for on credit – my parents’ generation saved for things, mine and subsequent generations buy first pay later (because we can’t possibly wait for anything). Generation Z and beyondThe current generation.The children of the xennials and millennials. Their grandparents’ and great-grandparents’ post-war hardship is nothing more than hearsay. Primary school children have smart phones as young as Year 3. They have access to games and content suitable for adults, with parents too liberal to do anything about it. They are victims or perpetrators of cyber bullying in their own bedrooms. Even access to porn creates unrealistic expectations of the opposite sex and relationships.Something they own breaks, it gets replaced. Stuff is cheap and accessible and these children have plenty of it. Experiences and amazing holidays are happening at a younger and younger age; when you’ve been there and done that by the time you are 16, what is there to look forward to? Aspirations are sky high, with parents and schools touting mantras such as ‘be what you want to be’, ‘anything is possible if you work for it’. Unrealistic expectations of themselves and what their lives ‘should’ look like are rife.Overstretched teaching staff are struggling to deal with the increasing social and emotional needs of the children in their classes as effectively as they’d like (but they are all doing their best). The warning signs are there in many primary aged children.Some supportThe following articles will help you begin to navigate the challenge of supporting children with their mental health.The TT blogging team includes experts in working with children suffering from Mental Health issues. Do get in touch with any questions you might have about children in your care and we will do our best to put you in touch with someone who can help.Related

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